The Mommy Files: Conversation Starters

Posted on Feb 28, 2012 by 17 Comments
The Mommy Files: Conversation Starters

When our daughter was in elementary school, she used to come home everyday and want to tell us everything that happened that day… right down to which kid stuck a yellow crayon up his nose. But as she’s gotten older, those conversations have gotten less and less frequent, primarily because she doesn’t always want to tell us what’s went on at school.

Or how about when you go out for dinner with your hubs and you don’t have anything to talk about but the kids? Did you ever think, “Man, we need something to talk about.”

Well, here’s a treat. Conversation starters. My friend originally told me about a book called Dinner Talk which I’ve already purchased…it’s got great questions that would be totally appropriate for any age group (for example, “If you could inherit one trait from a wild animal, what would it be?”).

But what if I didn’t want to buy a book? Were there other resources are out there? Indeed.

I found a website called (ironically enough) ConversationStarters.com. With questions like “How often do you shower?” and “Do you believe people are inherently good?” you know you’re getting into heady stuff.

There’s also Unique Conversation Starters, which includes “Does your gum lose it’s flavor on the bedpost overnight?” and “What’s your favorite Cyndi Lauper song?”

And above all else, don’t forget to look at Oprah’s favorite pick Table Topics. These are frippin’ AWESOME!!! With idea cards to keep your kids from getting bored to dinner and cocktail party questions, this is absolutely a must have!

What are your favorite conversation starters? Do you ever use them at the dinner table or on date night?

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  • http://www.twobearsfarm.com Lisa @ Two Bears Farm

    Sounds amusing. I love it now that my 5 year old can really get into dinner conversations :-)

  • http://www.livingthescream.com living The Scream

    We have been doing a conversation starter at dinner time called High and Low. Everyone gets a chance to share a high or happy moment they had during the day and then a sad or low moment. It has helped us so much! I love to hear what my daughters have to say. It has taught me a lot about them. We have been doing it for about a month and my daughters love it so much they are the ones that remind us every time it is dinner to not forget the High and Low game. :)

  • Penny W.

    We actually do have Table Topics and use it now and again. It was a great start to fun family conversations we never would have had otherwise.

    But yeah, when we go out without kids, it’s hard not to talk about work or children!! Takes an hour of getting warmed up before we talk about more esoteric or ideological subjects, like real grown-ups! :)

  • http://www.gogogoodie.com/ Sonia’s Goodie Bags

    You do need to get more creative with questions as your children grow up to avoid the “yes/no” answers!

  • http://www.jdaniel4smom.com JDaniel4′s Mom

    We try to have dinner every night together. These conversation ideas sound great.

  • kate

    @livingthescream. High/Low – great idea!

  • http://Www.Mommywithselectivememory.Blogspot.Com Mommy With Selective Memory

    I like toask specific questions about school like Who did you sit by at lunch etc

  • http://www.creativeconnectionsforkids.com Kristi@Creative Connections for Kids

    Thanks for the resources. Making dinner together a priority is so important!

  • http://www.creativeconnectionsforkids.com Kristi@Creative Connections for Kids

    Love the resources. Dinner together is so important for connecting with your kids and spouse.

  • http://www.innerchildfun.com Valerie @ Inner Child Fun

    Table Topics sounds interesting… off to check it out! I’m always looking for ways to make family time more fun. :-)

  • http://busykidshappymom.org busy kids=happy mom

    Love it! We’ve used Love Talks for conversation starters and I just downloaded the printable from Beauty and Bedlam’s dinner conversation kit. Can’t wait to get started on their 200+ questions!

  • http://amomwithalessonplan.com Jill @ A Mom With A Lesson Plan

    We do “best and worst”. Everyone goes around the table and tells the best thing of the day and the worst. I love it because it really makes everyone (even us adults) think about the events of the day. I hope when my kids get older this will help keep the conversation going!

  • http://livingatthewhiteheadszoo.blogspot.com amber

    I have teenagers and get lots of one word answers. Love this.

  • http://makedoandfriend.blogspot.com Charlotte @ MakeDoAndFriend

    My husband is the kind of guy who doesn’t like to talk about work at the end of the day because he says he is trying to forget about it!

    We tried an experiment last week – both my son and my husband took a camera with them all day (my son needed help as he is only 2 and half!) to document their days. Then after dinner we uploaded them to our TV, and had a ‘movie night’ watching the slideshows of our days. We talked about all the different things we had done, my kiddo getting excited seeing pictures of the park and his friends (and admittedly lots of blurry shots of the sky) and we got to see what daddy gets up to all day at work and what he ate for lunch.

    I guess it sounds kind of goofy, but it really worked a lot better than the ‘how was your day?’…’fine, yours?’ typical conversation!

  • http://www.kitchencounterchronicle.com Jen

    Great idea! We are quickly heading into this stage with our oldest daughter. Her enthusiasm for sharing her days events is dwindling. Great resources!

  • http://Www.Mommywithselectivememory.Blogspot.Com Mommy With Selective Memory

    We like current events…easy to think of and anything not involving kids or work is good in my book!!

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